About

I have a son who is funny, adorable, smart and just happens to be a Little Person. He was born with Achondroplasia; it is the leading cause of dwarfism. Thanks to many hard-working and talented people, the public at large has become more familiar with persons of short stature. Still, there are many misconceptions, misunderstandings and questions that average stature people have. I’d like to answer some of them.
• Around 80% of babies born with dwarfism come from average stature parents.
• They are of the same intelligence as the more general public.
• They are surgeons, lawyers, teachers, athletes, artists, journalists, and almost every other profession you can think of.
• The unemployment rate is higher than any other able-bodied group of people.
• The “M” word, or “midget”, is offensive to most little people. It does not refer to any one type of dwarfism. It is just a bad word.
• My son has a disproportionate type of dwarfism, that means his upper arms and legs, for instance, are shorter than average. He is perfectly proportioned for who he is, but is not the same, proportion-wise as taller folks.
• Persons with Achondroplasia, (Achons), compare equally in intelligence, talent, and ability to get the job done.
• Achons have medical issues, but rarely ask for assistance. They do have the same life expectancy as anyone else.
Those are the some of the facts.
Here are some myths:
• Little people love poking fun at how they appear to others.
• Little people only date other little people.
• They must agree with being called a midget or treated as one because they are always on t.v. dressed up as funny characters.
• Dwarfs cannot handle themselves in the workplace; they scare clients away and are always absent. They need too much special equipment.
After over 10 years, of being a member of Little People of America, I’ve never met so many people with the high work ethics, lust for life and just plain stubbornness to do whatever needs to be done, as I have in this organization.
I answer questions on a daily basis, practically, about my son. Once I answer their questions, I explain to them that he is probably the only little person they will ever meet in their lives. This makes them smile, they are happy that I took the time to answer their questions. And they usually walk away with a special look on their face like they’ve just been let in on a really cool secret.
If my son is the one answering the questions, the reactions are amazing to watch. People want to shake his hand, and thank him for talking to him. Rarely do people end our encounters with the same attitude they began them. They don’t say “Well, I’ll pray for you” or “good luck to you”. They end as all conversations should, “It was nice to meet you.”
My son and I were talking about it one day, and I told him that it won’t always be this way. “Not everyone will like you.” I told him once. (He thinks he’s all that so he answered, “Who wouldn’t like me!”) I asked him to Google the “M” word. He looked at the millions of results with his jaw dropped and, after a few seconds, burst out laughing and said, “They think we’re aliens!”
I guess to a young boy, with a giant ego who’s not been out in the world yet, that can be funny. He will find out, it’s not. He thought we should call everyone and tell them he’s not an alien….I said that would cost a lot of money. So he said we should go tell my friends on Twitter and G+ and Facebook and he said he’d tell his friends at Boy Scouts. I told him that was a great idea!
Soooo….
I am gathering colleagues, friends, celebs, and supporters and asking them to help us tell people all about little people. I am asking them to gather their friends as well. My proposal is to have an awareness event in Chicago, a town close to my heart and central to the country. I am asking each one of you to jump on board.
The personal response by email, phone calls, and visits is already incredible and is much appreciated! I will keep asking for supporters and volunteers of time and talent to join me.
My son asked, “If people want to know, shouldn’t we help them to become aware?”
Well, you already know my answer…so, join me! We’ll have a lot of fun in a great city and do some good!
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6 thoughts on “About

  1. Hi, I have just sent you an invitation to link through LinkedIn as well. I am in contact with a woman who has a grand child who is a Dwarf. She has started a line of jeans and trousers, specifically designed for teens and adults with Dwarfism.

  2. I have no doubt she will be! After reading Collin’s article, one can see the difficulty involved. Lp’s are known to be very determined and they often succeed. Thank you for sharing.

  3. Hi Jenovesia, thanks ever so much for your reply and for the links, which I have taken a look at today and forwarded on to Samantha’s mum – my sis. I am sure that Samantha will love to see Collin and his achievements to date. We really hope that she keeps up the swimming and her family encourage and support her all the way. Samantha was presented with a medal this year for her swimming at the DSA by Ellie Simmonds the Gold Medal Olympian, who is also patron of the DSA. We were all extremely proud. Ellie is Samantha’s hero and inspiration. Maybe one day she will get to be just as good. x

  4. Alison, thank you so much for the kind words. When I heard she was a swimmer, I immediately thought of a swimmer in Wisconsin, USA. His name is Collin with such a great story which was featured on the website of Dwarf Athletic Association of America (DAAA). I put both links below. I bet she would really like it.
    http://www.daaa.org/DAAA_home.html
    http://www.swimmingworldmagazine.com/lane9/news/27187.asp?q=Collin-O'Connell:-A-Little-Person-Who-Wants-to-be-Shorter

  5. This is a truly inspiring article & very true in every aspect. My beautiful niece Samantha who is now 8 years old is a little person and her proportions are similar to your lovely son. She is a joy to us all & those around her. She is currently excelling at swimming and takes part in the Dwarf Sports Athletics here in the Uk. She leads an incredibly active life & there is nothing she can’t do – just maybe a little differently. There should be much more awareness of dwarfism to increase perception of it in a much more positive way. I always tell Samantha that good things come in small packages & in this case that is very true.

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